Could your self esteem have fallen on the wayside just like the leaves
from the trees or gone into hibernation with the bears? Without wasting more time,
start making preparation for your lost esteem. Regardless whether your self
confidence is fading, growing stronger or have already disappeared; it makes a
lot of sense for us to nurture it. Your self appreciation powers you up to
withstand unpleasant and tough times without even flinching. We get bliss and
happiness when living is easy.
The following are effective means that can be
applied to improve your self confidence through enhancing your self image.
Outline all your positive qualities:
Focus on your strengths. List all assets and strengths that make you
better such as experiences, skills, social and physical resources and talents
among other things that make you feel great about yourself. Include all the
compliments that you have been given by others. Letting yourself remember all
your valuable assets is a sure way to keep you motivated to face each new day
with greater self-esteem.
Accept yourself:
When you realize that you are a one desirable package as opposed to
being a single individual item, your self image is greatly enhanced. Admit that
you are not above reproach but the few shortcomings should not undermine your
entire intricate, multifaceted and desirable package. Consider taking your
photograph where you are broadly smiling and paste it in a suitable place such
as a bathroom mirror. Each time you look at the smile, the image should help
you to think of the positive characteristics that make you.
Trust in your competence:
Make a list of the challenges that you have successfully overcome. This
increases your self appreciation since you get confidence that if you tacked
other problems in the past successfully, at least you have knowledge, ingenuity
and skills that can help you to combat the new challenge. Your past success is
very essential in enhancing your courage. If you doubt your capability, just
take note of al the challenges you have successfully accomplished irrespective
of how small they might have been. Ensure to congratulate yourself if the
challenge required greater effort and pat yourself on the back.
Believe in your worth:
This is improvement of your self image. You need to recognize that you
are important and sometimes you will have to disappoint others to accomplish
your goals. Just think of essential things that you would like to do and get
them done. Demand for what you want and create a room for saying no for the
things that are not very good for you. When you accept that you also deserve
respect, you will have the self confidence to do what you desire whether others
are approving it or not.
Flash back:
Just try to think about some recent misfortunes you had and things
went amiss. Compel yourself to name at least 5 things that you successfully
combated even after some things having gone amiss. This is a sure way of
enhancing your self image and self worth too.
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